Positive Change is a dialogical process and through conversation and asking the unconditionally positive question, performance is strengthened and change initiatives are successfully implemented.General
Understand What You Want
First of you should understand that why you need to change your life now. What things are bad in your existing life. Many psychologists said that identify your goals in life will be very helpful in future for you.
Rid of your life from negativity. I know this not easy as it sounds. Negative society or surroundings will never lead you to positive life ever. Identify negative things around you and cut them off from your life slowly, like they are not even exist for you ever.
Be Friendly & Helpful To Others
Friendly behavior leads you to happiness .be kind to others because kindness to others feels you better as a good person, more optimistic and positive.
Buying a cup of coffee to your co-worker is the example of this attitude towards society. Smiling for others makes them closer to you and gives relive to you mentally.
Simplify Your Life
I saw many people are so much depressed and unhappy to their life because they make their life so much complicated for themselves with own hands.
Overthinking to many matters can also makes your life so complicated so don’t think too much everything.
Many things returns to you from you, which you pass to others from yourself. If you’re giving positive stuff to others then you will get positive things back.
Take Small Steps
whenever you start something , you should start with small & tiny steps. When we saw big picture of your life goals and its overwhelmed your mind , then many people took big steps towards them and fall down earlier then they deserve.
I personally celebrate my small wins. When i take small steps then the ratio of winning and losing is also small which can be easily handled by me as well.
Should You Forget Your Past Or Not?
Well that is one of the trickiest thing I do in my life. People go through many things in their life and get the positive & negative results. Positive things must encourage you for your future and negative will pull your back.
We’ve all got baggage that can weigh us down and sit like heavy burdens on our souls, but carrying that around for the rest of your life won’t make you a better person, only a bitter one.
Choose to let go of the things in your past that have hurt you, that fill your life with negativity, and that weigh on you. Forgive yourself and others for mistakes made, and release your grip on anything that binds you to the bad things you’re better off forgetting and escaping.
“Personally I do not forget my past positive things for my encouragement”
Know About Your Destinations First
Have you ever noticed that when you went to any place for work,chill or any thing else, returning to home feels less time consuming then heading towards to destination. Please leave your comment if you feel like this.
Anyhow, if you are starting your new life with these steps then try to make plans first to start anything. Where you should know your destination or target first. And then start digging into it slowly.
I Hope You Enjoy these steps and use them to change your life with these positive changes.
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